b'nei mitzvah forms

General Information

B'nei Mitzvah FAQ

Please Note: The B'nei Mitzvah fee will be determined annually and will be communicated to families prior to billing. Questions? Contact betsy@oaklandsinai.org, rhonda@oaklandsinai.org, or terrie@oaklandsinai.org. 

Watch Cantor Keys' Intro to B'nei Mizvah Meeting
February 16, 2023

Watch Cantor Keys' Intro to B'nei Mitzvah Meeting
December 8, 2022

Resources for B'nei Mitzvah 

2025 B'nei Mitzvah Date Planner—Calendar and Registration Form

How to choose your B’nei Mitzvah date for 2025:
Watch Rabbi Mates-Muchin's 2025 Date Planning Meeting
March 19, 2023 

B'nei Mitzvah Planning Guidelines and Logistics

Samples of Parents' Blessings

Sample Bat Mitzvah Program

Planning Tips from Past B'nei Mitzvah Families
As you are planning your child's simcha, you may want to get some tips based on the experiences of past b'nei mitzvah families. To read questionnaire answers from recent b'nei mitzvah families, click here to log in to our membership portal. 

Facilities Information

B'nei Mitzvah Facilities Information for Families

B'nei Mitzvah Facilities Fee Information

Application and Agreement for User of Facilities

Facility Use Guide—download pdf

For B'nei Mitzvah Family and Guests — The Blessing for Friday Night Candles and Torah Blessings
(B'nei Mitzvah students should use links on Prayers page; links below include transliteration)

Candle Blessings

  Friday Night Candle Blessing  (PDF)
  Friday Night Candle Blessing  (mp3)

Torah Blessings   (PDF)

  Blessing Before the Torah   (mp3)
  Blessing After the Torah   (mp3)